Anti Depression Guide

I remember telling my mate about the researched list of characteristics that rich men look for in finding their other halves. He laughed and said:

You are too opinionated to be one of those women!

And he's right. I have been opinionated as long as I could remember. Stubborn as hell too. Since I was a child, if I hear / see / sense something that wasn't right but imposed on me, I would point it out, even though it was against the culture where I was brought up in.

Never have been a quiet, supportive woman. And way too curious about things to stop asking questions. I remember at a very young age, more than one person, including a doctor and a herbalist, asked my mother: is this your daughter? She asks so many questions!

I would not adopt someone's idea or opinion unless the reasons are well explained and logically makes sense. It takes a lot for someone to persuade me.

I also believe that I have the ability to earn money on my own. Money buys much comfort and luxury. But in the end, given my personality, I would be suffocated to death if I have to fit into the list of what an extremely rich man wants.

Personality is destiny. People really don't have to go to tarot card readers or try other methods of divination. Look at the personality, and you can predict the results.

After taking care of the appearance, women who want to marry for money should study this list of behavior - although there may be cultural variations - adapt accordingly:

1. Make use of proper etiquette at all situations public. Dining etiquette, speaking etiquette, communication etiquette, etc. For example, when dining, know what fork / knife / spoon to use for each course, and know which glass and bread plate are yours. When speaking, be sure you are not using slangs, and do speak in a voice that is gentle but audible.
2. Do not assert your opinion unless you are asked (this varies according to culture).
3. Walk at a moderate speed - do not rush. You are a high class lady, do not forget!
4. Walk elegantly - do not walk as if you are wearing flip flops - too many women do that!
5. Do not reproach your husband in public - it is humiliating!
6. Keep your manners when others serve you - meaning do not treat anyone like a slave. In stores, do not act like a spoiled child. Be reasonable with your request, and treat people who serve you with respect. No put downs.
7. When making a complaint about those who have not served you properly, do so in a diplomatic way, not gossiping and backstabbing them.
8. Drive with manners! An expensive car owner should not be driving recklessly, cutting off other people, tailgating other cars, or rev the engine to show off. Doing all that just shows others one thing: your ego. And, no "suped up" cars - most are done without taste!
9. Learn all you can about real estate and investing. You don't want to just spend your husband's money, but help him grow some too.
10. Keep your job, or do something that makes some sort of income for yourself. Afterall, if the marriage is not good for you, you can walk off without regret!