Archive for August, 2007

Your Self Esteem – Identity And Serious Illness

Thursday, August 30th, 2007

Your self esteem, confidence in your abilities and even your identity is at risk when you have a chronic disease, illness or life altering event that reshapes your outlook on life.

A child with asthma or diabetes has to deal with being unable to do some things or taking medication to be as close to ‘normal’ as possible. Because of their medical conditions, these children may be teased or feel left out which is a serious blow to their self esteem. Kids can be cruel to anyone that is even slightly different so building a positive self image can be a nightmare. Do you remember seeing children that were left out of activities because of their medical problems, their lack of a support group and the tough times they faced?

Every child that is seen as different whether from an illness, injury or just being new to the area should, in my opinion, have Real Self-Esteem Now! (9-13 yrs)  and Supreme Confidence Now! to help them build a positive self image. Their peers may help that in the future but at the point of being new, ill or injured they will feel alone and isolated.

Teenagers that have serious illnesses or injuries seldom face the peer put downs younger children do but they still take a serious hit to their self esteem and confidence.

Like teenagers with serious health issues or injuries, adults suffer with the need to rebuild their self esteem and confidence.

Let’s use a few health examples to illustrate my point.

Cancer - Children with cancer aren’t usually taunted by their peers but they often have low self esteem because they feel like outsiders looking in. teenagers and adults suffering with cancer take an even bigger hit to their self image because they’ve had more time to establish their identity.

Spinal Cord Injury - Children may get teased at first because of the wheelchair but the cool factor of the wheelchair may blunt the teasing or eliminate it entirely. They’ll still feel like outsiders because their activities are somewhat limited. Because of these limitations, their self esteem and confidence in their abilities may suffer.

Teenagers with spinal cord injuries have had a longer time to establish their self esteem, confidence and identity so this type of injury will knock the wind out of them and their plans. Many will struggle for years to feel good about themselves and quite a few will never like themselves as much as they did prior to the injury. Their confidence in their future and how they are going to handle life has just been tossed out the window. The work required to help these teens cope and rebuild their confidence and self esteem is massive and many relatives are NOT much help because THEY are adapting to the changes in their loved ones.

Adults have usually had time to establish both their self image and careers before they experience a spinal cord injury so this life altering experience often destroys careers, relationships, how they feel about themselves and their confidence. Imagine your world being turned upside down in an instant.

You may have to fight for your life before you start rehabilitation. You are in a hospital so privacy isn’t something you’ll have. Depending on the severity of your injury, you may need lifelong assistance feeding yourself, urinating and having bowel movements. Don’t you think any one of these will batter your self image?

While you are in rehab, you are classified as a paraplegic or a quadriplegic. Your identity prior to your injury does not exist in this environment. After you complete rehab, you may or may not be able to resume your career. Even if you are able to return to your previous career, you may find that you will need adaptive devices or adjustments to your work station to accommodate your wheelchair. You may also find that your co-workers will treat you differently. Each of these may or may not affect your self image but you will feel the effects as they are all added together. Don’t you think your self esteem will suffer from a one to two year absence from work then having to play catch up from a totally different perspective about the world and your place in it? How shaken do you think your confidence in your ability to provide for yourself, your loved ones and your retirement will be?

You don’t have to have cancer, a spinal cord injury, stroke, diabetes or any other life altering illness or injury to have your self esteem, confidence or other core mental condition affected. Your brain is an organic computer that is constantly having its programming altered by life experiences, health and every sensory input you receive.

The input you receive doesn’t have to be within your conscious awareness to affect you. Positive and negative input is received daily from multiple sources and how much you receive and you interpret this data will determine your future actions.

I cannot recommend strongly enough that you visit Think Right Now and read the multiple testimonials for each of the areas that you or a loved one may need to improve. Anyone facing a chronic health condition, serious illness or life altering injury should have the self esteem, supreme confidence and I am healed now CDs in their arsenal of tools for dealing with life. I wish these tools had been available when I broke my neck diving in 1969 because I’m sure they would have sped up my adjustment to my new life. I’m equally sure you will experience big benefits like thousands of others should you choose to use these tools. The testimonials for I am healed now are particularly inspiring.

Asthma, diabetes, spinal cord injuries and cancer are just a few examples of medical problems that can turn your thinking away from the positives in life to focusing on your problem which is self destructive in many ways. I’m willing to bet that you know of at least one person with a medical problem that would benefit from one or more of these self help CDs or one of the others not mentioned here. Think Right Now has a 6 month warranty on each product so the risk factor doesn’t come into play. If you take the time to read the pages on the website AND the testimonials from actual users, you may find that a problem can be eliminated or made a LOT more bearable.

I Am Healed Now! may not heal everything but it creates in you a mindset that gives your body and mind a fighting chance.

Real Self-Esteem Now! helps you like yourself so you want to get better.

Real Self-Esteem Now! (9-13 yrs) helps your 9-13 year old children like themselves so they want to get better.

Supreme Confidence Now! helps give you the core belief that you can overcome any illness, injury or obstacle life throws at you.

Your self-esteem, identity and confidence don’t have to suffer as much because of a serious illness, injury or life altering event.

Improved feeding tube

Thursday, August 30th, 2007

Organ chilling

Thursday, August 30th, 2007

A Novel Protein That Makes Breathing Automatic

Thursday, August 30th, 2007
Biologists at the University of Pennsylvania have found a link between a recently discovered protein in the brain and the nervous system's duty to regulate respiration.

Breaking Up is Hard to Do, Study Finds

Thursday, August 30th, 2007
"Breaking Up is Hard to Do" is advice from a popular 1970s song, but older women going through a relationship breakup may have health problems to go along with their broken hearts, a University of Alabama researcher has found.

Researcher Studies Crayfish to Better Understand Brain Processes

Thursday, August 30th, 2007
Voyage to the bottom of the sea, or simply look along the bottom of a clear stream and you may spy lobsters or crayfish waving their antennae. Look closer, and you will see them feeling around with their legs and flicking their antennules – the small, paired sets of miniature feelers at the top of their heads between the long antennae.

Why Every Bipolar Should Read “The 4-Hour Workweek”, Part II

Wednesday, August 29th, 2007

The next concept of Ferriss’s that is of utmost importance to the productive bipolar is the Low-Information Diet.

This concept will be expanded on and morphed for our purposes but we must give credit for the inspiration behind the idea to Timothy Ferriss.

Before we get started, Ferriss extends on the concepts of Pareto’s and Parkinson’s Laws by giving a couple of pointers regarding to-do lists, another area we’ll expand upon as Manic Productivity develops.

Ferriss advises using not only short to-do lists, but also not-to-do lists.

From experience, this is a much more effective technique for the productive bipolar than solely utilizing a to-do list.  The keys are to keep the to-do list short (ideally 2, and never more than 3 key tasks per day) in order to narrow down productive bipolar energies.  A vast majority of the time (like 99%) the not-to-do list will be substantially longer than than the to-do list.  If the productive bipolar can learn to successfully utilize this technique, she should find that her energies will serve to be more effective in successfully completing a couple of key tasks per day than going the traditional bipolar route of starting 15 tasks and completing none.  I’ve found that writing your lists on 2 separate 3 by 5 inch index cards and keeping them in your back pocket (to avoid the typical clutter in the side pockets) is best to serve as a reminder of what the day’s priorities are.

TIP-Remember Pareto’s Law and you should find your not-to-do list much lengthier than your to-do list.

Also, to cut out the urgent and focus on the important (remember “The 7 Habits Of Highly Effective People), Ferriss recommends asking yourself the following question when deciding on the important tasks for the day,

“If this is the only thing I accomplish today, will I be satisfied with my day?”

Okay, so we went off on a bit of a tangent there.  You can now see why developing techniques to focus productive bipolar energies is such a necessity.

So back to the application of the Low-Information Diet to the productive bipolar.

I for one am still have some troubles adjusting to the concept of the Low-Information Diet.  I’m one to attempt to read at least 2-4 non-fiction books per month in addition to my ever-growing RSS feed subscriptions.  But in context of lifestyle design for the productive bipolar, it can play a crucial part in saving time and focusing attention and energy on priority tasks.

If you’re skeptical, Mr. Ferriss found a great way to disarm your defenses.  Correct me if I’m wrong, but Albert Einstein was a remarkably brilliant man.  This is his take on the Low-Information Diet,

“Reading, after a certain age, diverts the mind to much from its creative pursuits.  Any man who reads too much and uses his own brain to little falls into lazy habits of thinking”-Albert Einstein

Ferriss’s thinking behind what he calls “selective ignorance” is that most “information and interruptions…are irrelevant, unimportant, or unactionable…most are all three”.  Adding to this, he tells us the “lifestyle design is based on massive action-output” and that “increased output necessitates decreased input“.  For the productive bipolar, who tends to have a fairly healthy output, “selective ignorance” is an important strategy in managing such symptoms as racing, disorganized thoughts and the resulting unfocused output that results in numerous unfinished tasks.  In this light, I’m amazed at how much information I consume a day through my RSS reader that has no importance in contributing to not only my day’s priorities, but my overall life goals.  I also know that I’m one to suffer from information overload and general glut that rather than increasing my productive output can actually paralyze me entirely with a racing mind!

If we apply Pareto’s Law in the context of information, then 80% of the written output found in this blog comes from only 20% of the information I’ve consumed to write the article.

In some ways I’d agree that Pareto’s Law is somewhat flawed unless very narrowly focused.  For example, I’ve read articles published today at Treehugger.com that have no relevance to this blog, however the knowledge I’ve gained is applicable to other goals in my life, though not tasks specific to today.

That is where we find the challenge in “selective ignorance”.  My advice to the productive bipolar is when completing your daily priorities is to:

  1. only consume the necessary information to complete the task
  2. finish the task before moving onto anything else, including responding to the email alert you probably have set on your computer as that is one of the biggest distractions to staying on task
  3. when moving onto the next task, once again consume only the required information needed to completed that task
  4. once all daily tasks are completed, then feel free to consume whatever other information you may find in books, RSS readers, emails, etc. that is pertinent to your longer term tasks and goals/objectives

You will find by cultivating “selective ignorance” in this way that you don’t actually become entirely ignorant, but still are able to complete your daily priorities in a focused and time-constricted (remember Parkinson’s Law) way.

It must also be said that sometimes good old face-to-face communication, or even telephone conversations with people that may hold information related to your tasks can save you an extraordinary amount of time that would otherwise be used searched for the required information yourself, whether that be through searching through the plethora of information on the web or browsing your local library.  I’ve found in my own journey to becoming a productive bipolar, especially through the world of blogging, that people you may assume would be impossible to contact, whether that be New York Times bestselling authors of founders and CEOs of startups or even larger publicly traded companies are usually eager to talk about their projects and in many cases, if contacted can result in productive friendships and work relationships as well.

Just remember to always ask yourself, as Ferriss teaches us, “Is this information relevant to a task that is immediate and important?

Well adjusting to the Low-Information Diet may seem difficult at first, I’ve found that it can be extremely helpful in focusing the productive bipolar mind on immediate and important (not urgent) tasks resulting in increased output and more time for relaxation and information consumption related to longer term objectives.

Here are some resources that elaborate on some of these ideas.  Just keep in mind that certain concepts of Ferriss’s do need to be repurposed to be of utmost use to the productive bipolar.  Changes of course are found within the content of this blog.

UAV swarms

Wednesday, August 29th, 2007

Underwater communications

Wednesday, August 29th, 2007

4 Examples of True Purpose in Life

Wednesday, August 29th, 2007
Margaret Meed, once said “Never doubt that a small group of people can CHANGE THE WORLD. Indeed, it is the only thing that ever has”. If you pour your heart, passion in complete, truthful and honest desire behind a cause you can rest assured that no matter how hard or difficult the situation is [...]