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		<title>New Year, Same Old Depression</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 06 Jan 2012 02:00:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Happy New Year everyone!&#160;I haven't written for quite a while because I wasn't feeling depressed.&#160; Now that the holidays are over, the same old depression is trying to seep back into my days.&#160; I'm resisting the best I can.&#160; How are a...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<FONT style="FONT-SIZE: 12px" face=Verdana><FONT style="FONT-SIZE: 12px"></FONT>Happy New Year everyone!&nbsp;<BR><BR>I haven't written for quite a while because I wasn't feeling depressed.&nbsp; Now that the holidays are over, the same old depression is trying to seep back into my days.&nbsp; I'm resisting the best I can.&nbsp; How are all of you doing fighting off depression? <BR><BR>I feel&nbsp;very fortunate to have this blog and so many faithful followers.&nbsp; I appreciate you!&nbsp; I also need to try&nbsp;and appreciate myself.&nbsp; That sounds strange but...it's something I&nbsp;find difficult to do all the time and even more so when&nbsp;I get the blues.&nbsp;&nbsp;<BR><BR>I have family members who frequently&nbsp;talk about their accomplishments.&nbsp; I don't understand how they are able to do that.&nbsp; After I've heard or read plenty of that, I start wondering what I might say about my accomplishments.&nbsp; I wonder getting out of bed and&nbsp;making it through another day,&nbsp;or managing&nbsp;not to eat all the chocolate at once, would impress anyone.&nbsp; <BR><BR>Recently, I did a good thing&nbsp;for my extended family.&nbsp; I started a family group website so that we could all communicate and share pictures.&nbsp;&nbsp;Several of my sisters wanted a family site but they didn't know how to accomplish it.&nbsp; I was able to&nbsp;set it up&nbsp;and I felt a sense of accomplishment.&nbsp; Even more recently, this good thing that I did has turned into my worst nightmare!&nbsp;&nbsp;My sisters are cruel and their cruelty is usually directed at me.&nbsp; It's causing me a lot of stress and increased depression&nbsp;just dealing with them again.&nbsp;&nbsp;<BR><BR>I guess there was a lot to be said for the "isolationism" I had been practicing for the past several years.&nbsp; I don't really want to return to that but this&nbsp;emotional pain is very difficult.&nbsp; Thank you for reading this.&nbsp; I hope I haven't been too&nbsp;much of a whiner.&nbsp; I would appreciate any feedback you can give me.&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp;<BR><BR>&nbsp;<BR></FONT>]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Take Your Own Advice</title>
		<link>http://antidepressionguide.org/2011/03/30/take-your-own-advice/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 30 Mar 2011 23:58:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>ozzieblackcat</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Here I am again.....blogging in an effort to make myself feel better.&#160; Have you ever noticed that you have good ideas and advice for depressed friends and relatives but can't seem to help yourself?&#160; Well, maybe it's time we take our own advic...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Here I am again.....blogging in an effort to make myself feel better.&nbsp; Have you ever noticed that you have good ideas and advice for depressed friends and relatives but can't seem to help yourself?&nbsp; Well, maybe it's time we take our own advice. <BR><BR>I usually have good suggestions for those who are having a hard time with depression, stress or anxiety.&nbsp;&nbsp;my ideas range from seeking professional help to taking a walk outside to patting yourself on the back.&nbsp;&nbsp; I guess I'm weighing my options right now and am trying to decide what idea would be most helpful to me this time.&nbsp; I've done all of the "advised" things at one time or another in my life.&nbsp; Are we supposed to keep doing them forever?<BR><BR>I have&nbsp;hopes that my spirits will improve dramatically when the weather finally does.&nbsp; This has been one of the longest and dreariest Winters and early Springs that I've ever experienced here in Southwest Missouri.&nbsp; Sunshine has been scarce and we've had way too much rain and snow.&nbsp; <BR><BR>When the weather is decent I will need to figure out where to put the perennials I brought here from our old house.&nbsp; I feel like I don't know where to start, even though this yard is very small compared to what we had.&nbsp; Have I lost my confidence?&nbsp; Yes, I think so.&nbsp; It's easy to do when someone else&nbsp;gripes about your abilities and choices and shows no interest in what you want to do.&nbsp; <BR><BR>I bought two six packs of happy looking pansies the other day and they are waiting for me on the front porch.&nbsp; Maybe soon I can get out there to put them in a pot in the sunshine.&nbsp;&nbsp; Maybe......<BR><BR><BR><BR><BR><BR><BR><BR><BR><BR><BR><BR><BR><BR><BR><BR>]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Three Ways Yoga Reduces Stress and Anxiety</title>
		<link>http://antidepressionguide.org/2011/02/18/three-ways-yoga-reduces-stress-and-anxiety/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 18 Feb 2011 15:35:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>ozzieblackcat</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Here is a guest post for you to enjoy.&#160; It is written by one of my online friends, Maria Rainer.&#160; I took yoga classes for approximately two years and can tell you that&#160;yoga&#160;really does help a lot with&#160;one's&#160;anxiety level.&#38;...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<P style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><FONT face=Calibri><FONT style="FONT-SIZE: 14px"><EM>Here is a guest post for you to enjoy.&nbsp; It is written by one of my online friends, Maria Rainer.&nbsp; I took yoga classes for approximately two years and can tell you that&nbsp;yoga&nbsp;really does help a lot with&nbsp;one's&nbsp;anxiety level.&nbsp;<BR><BR></EM>Yoga does more than help your balance, core fitness and flexibility - it helps to reduce anxiety and relieve stress. With the hustle and bustle of today’s society, it’s normal for people to stress about life, money, work, family and whatever else causes daily anxiety. Yoga relieves and reduces stress in three ways:</FONT></FONT></P>
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<P style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><FONT style="FONT-SIZE: 14px" face=Calibri>1. Through regulated inhaling and exhaling breaths. As you inhale, you're sending more oxygen to the brain, which stimulates your nervous system. Exhaling helps regulate this process and releases toxins from your bloodstream, helping your body relax. The double leg raise and certain yoga breaths like alternative nostril breathing are great ways to send oxygen to the brain and circulation to your body thus reducing stress levels. </FONT></P>
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<P style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><FONT style="FONT-SIZE: 14px" face=Calibri>2. Meditation and relaxation helps you find your center and focus, while using your regulated breaths to relax the mind. Once the mind is relaxed, you're able to transfer your relaxation to the rest of your body while meditating and focusing on this process. Meditation helps you focus on quieting the mind and finding your inner strength when stressful situations arise. </FONT></P>
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<P style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><FONT style="FONT-SIZE: 14px" face=Calibri>3. Through regulated breathing and meditation, you're able to focus and block out outside noises while focusing on your inner self and your inner strength. This aspect of yoga is also vital for focusing on your breathing and meditation. This may be one of the harder aspects of yoga to grasp – being able to focus and not become distracted with inner thoughts and outside noise. Focus and lack thereof is a major contributor to daily stress; with so much going on, we can struggle to focus on accomplishing one task before we can complete another. </FONT></P>
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<P style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><FONT style="FONT-SIZE: 14px" face=Calibri>Once you've mastered the aspects of breathing, meditation and focusing through yoga, you're able to calm your nervous system, relax your mind and block out outside noises, which are all contributors of stress.</FONT></P>
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<P style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><FONT face=Calibri><FONT style="FONT-SIZE: 14px">Bio: Maria Rainier is a freelance writer and blog junkie. She is currently a resident blogger at First in Education, researching various </FONT><A href="http://www.onlinedegrees.org/" ><FONT style="FONT-SIZE: 14px"><FONT style="FONT-SIZE: 14px" face=Calibri>online degree</FONT><FONT style="FONT-SIZE: 14px" face=Calibri>&nbsp;</FONT></FONT></A><FONT style="FONT-SIZE: 14px"> </FONT></FONT><FONT style="FONT-SIZE: 14px" face=Calibri>programs and blogging about student life. In her spare time, she enjoys square-foot gardening, swimming, and avoiding her laptop.</FONT></P>
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		<title>The Link Between Stress and Depression</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 07 Nov 2010 12:43:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>ozzieblackcat</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I'm happy to offer you another guest post.  This one is written by Guy Brandon, a counselor and writer, as well as the founder of StressingOut.org. 
Stress serves an important purpose: it prepares your body for action in order to keep itself out of ...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[I'm happy to offer you another guest post.  This one is written by Guy Brandon, a counselor and writer, as well as the founder of StressingOut.org. 
<p  style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;">Stress serves an important purpose: it prepares your body for action in order to keep itself out of danger. But unfortunately, the kinds of challenges we experience today aren’t always best solved by that kind of decisive physical behavior. The result, if stress continues, can be a host of mental and physical problems, including depression.<br />
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<p style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;">&nbsp;</p>
<p style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><b>What is stress?<br />
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<p style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><a href="http://www.stressingout.org/what-is-stress/">Stress results from many different situations</a> , but the form it takes is generally the same. That’s because stress never developed to help us to cope with the demands of the modern world – high workloads, relationship problems, money worries, problem colleagues and difficult commutes. In its evolutionary context, stress is our body’s mental and physical response to a direct, immediate threat. Its job is to enable us to take typically one of two simple behaviors: fight or flight. </p>
<p style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;">&nbsp;</p>
<p style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;">That’s why we experience stress the way we do. Our heart rate rises and we start to breath faster, to supply oxygen to the muscles. We sweat, to cool our bodies from the coming exertion. We may feel cold, or nauseous, as blood is directed away from the stomach to more essential areas. A cascade of hormones makes us more alert and faster to react. Essentially, it’s a one-size-fits-all response to a threat. That means we can feel much the same symptoms whether we are physically challenged – perhaps by a mugger, or less directly and intentionally by a careless driver – or threatened emotionally or mentally.<br />
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<p style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;">&nbsp;</p>
<p style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><b>Changing the way we think<br />
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<p style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;">Stress has mental and physical effects. As well as preparing the body for action, it alters the way we think. Our thinking becomes polarized, black-and-white, or ‘all or nothing’ as psychologists call it – enabling us to take fast and decisive action to deal with the potential threat.<br />
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<p style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;">&nbsp;</p>
<p style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;">When the threat genuinely is physical – that car that pulls out in front of you without warning, or an unexpected noise in the house you thought was otherwise empty – then that makes good sense. But in the more nuanced situations that we more regularly find ourselves in, this kind of all-or-nothing thinking doesn’t tend to do us any favors. Relationships, tricky work situations and the like demand a more measured response than the immediate quick-fixes that stress evolved to help us deal with.</p>
<p style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;">&nbsp;</p>
<p style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;">Unfortunately, when a stressful situation goes on for a long time, so do the changes in our thought patterns. We become more anxious and irritable, more impulsive and less flexible in our thinking. We are harder on ourselves, because – in its original context – stress demands that we have to be: it’s what keeps us safe. Stress forces us to think in terms of do/do not; at risk/safe; pass/fail. If the source of stress is still present, then we self-evidently haven’t succeeded in keeping ourselves out of danger. One consequence is that we become far more prone to depression, as our failures are implicitly emphasized over and over as the source of the stress remains unchecked.<br />
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<p style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;">&nbsp;</p>
<p style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;">Cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) and other techniques can be useful in overcoming this unhelpful way of thinking, but essentially, it’s worth remembering that stress is often our body’s best – but ultimately inappropriate and unhelpful – attempt to deal with a bad situation.</p>
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<p style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;">StressingOut.org, is a website providing self-help resources for stress, depression, anxiety and related conditions.</p>]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Stress and Roller Coaster of Emotions</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 04 Nov 2010 10:09:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>ozzieblackcat</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[My husband and I are buying a new home and the stress involved in the whole process has been overwhelming at times.  We closed the deal on our new house last Friday and are preparing for our move.  The moving process is causing me to have a whole r...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[My husband and I are buying a new home and the stress involved in the whole process has been overwhelming at times.  We closed the deal on our new house last Friday and are preparing for our move.  The moving process is causing me to have a whole roller coaster of emotions.  Yesterday, for the second time, we hauled a car load of small items to the new house.  For the second time, I felt sadness as I hauled the boxes and other items to the car.   We have lived in our current home for forty years.  It's going to be hard to let go of it.  It's going to be difficult when it's time to lock the door for the last time and say good-bye for the last time.  <br />
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Hauling our treasures in to the new house felt happy and exciting.  The anticipation of making lots of new memories is mainly exciting but also a wee bit scary.  I look forward to the clean and light atmosphere of the house itself as well as the peaceful country setting of the neighborhood.   I fear it will take forever for us to get everything put in it's new place.  I also fear we will forever have problems finding things.  Change is a challenge for everyone but at my age, when memory sometimes isn't at it's best, change is even more challenging.  <br />
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Organization is one of my strong points but adapting to change is one of my weak points.  Maybe between the two I'll stike a happy medium and thoroughly enjoy our new home and the upcoming process of moving into it.  Wish me luck! <br />
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		<title>De-Stress During the Hustle and Bustle</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 07 Dec 2008 10:05:47 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>ozzieblackcat</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[by Susan<BR><BR>Amidst the holiday hustle and bustle, I hope you will take time to de-stress so you don't wear yourself out completely.&#160;&#160; My husband and I are doing that on a regular basis this year.&#160;&#160; As we have gotten older we have realized that we need to take time for us to be alone together........&#160;enjoying some of our usual activities.&#160; <BR><BR>Yesterday we finished our Christmas shopping, I think.&#160;&#160; We always shop for our four children, their spouses and our two grandchildren as well as a few other family members.&#160;&#160; We don't spend a lot of money but we do spend a lot of time out there among the crowds.&#160;&#160; We try to accomplish as much as possible on weekdays but yesterday, a Saturday, we were right out there in the midst of the hustle and bustle, along with all the other shoppers. <BR><BR>However, we also took the time to see a movie which is one of our favorite things to do.&#160;&#160; This time we saw Australia, starring Nicole Kidman and Hugh Jackman.&#160;&#160; I loved the movie..... it stirred so many feelings in me.&#160;&#160; I did a lot of sniffling and wiped my eyes repeatedly.&#160;&#160; Today we are going to a free Christmas concert&#160;to be performed by the music department at Missouri State&#160;University.&#160; We plan to dress up for the occasion and perhaps have dinner afterwards.&#160;&#160; <BR><BR>Oh dear!&#160; &#160;I just realized another item we need to get at a <EM>store!</EM>&#160;&#160;&#160; I'm also wondering if I&#160;purchased enough wrapping paper.&#160;&#160; All of these holiday preparations are so much fun and&#160;yet so stressful, especially for those of us with anxiety/depression.&#160;&#160; I think a&#160;nice long walk today would go a long way in de-stressing.&#160; Sometimes a nap helps too!&#160;&#160; Be sure to take time to de-stress in whatever way works best for you.&#160; <BR><BR>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[by Susan<BR><BR>Amidst the holiday hustle and bustle, I hope you will take time to de-stress so you don't wear yourself out completely.&nbsp;&nbsp; My husband and I are doing that on a regular basis this year.&nbsp;&nbsp; As we have gotten older we have realized that we need to take time for us to be alone together........&nbsp;enjoying some of our usual activities.&nbsp; <BR><BR>Yesterday we finished our Christmas shopping, I think.&nbsp;&nbsp; We always shop for our four children, their spouses and our two grandchildren as well as a few other family members.&nbsp;&nbsp; We don't spend a lot of money but we do spend a lot of time out there among the crowds.&nbsp;&nbsp; We try to accomplish as much as possible on weekdays but yesterday, a Saturday, we were right out there in the midst of the hustle and bustle, along with all the other shoppers. <BR><BR>However, we also took the time to see a movie which is one of our favorite things to do.&nbsp;&nbsp; This time we saw Australia, starring Nicole Kidman and Hugh Jackman.&nbsp;&nbsp; I loved the movie..... it stirred so many feelings in me.&nbsp;&nbsp; I did a lot of sniffling and wiped my eyes repeatedly.&nbsp;&nbsp; Today we are going to a free Christmas concert&nbsp;to be performed by the music department at Missouri State&nbsp;University.&nbsp; We plan to dress up for the occasion and perhaps have dinner afterwards.&nbsp;&nbsp; <BR><BR>Oh dear!&nbsp; &nbsp;I just realized another item we need to get at a <EM>store!</EM>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; I'm also wondering if I&nbsp;purchased enough wrapping paper.&nbsp;&nbsp; All of these holiday preparations are so much fun and&nbsp;yet so stressful, especially for those of us with anxiety/depression.&nbsp;&nbsp; I think a&nbsp;nice long walk today would go a long way in de-stressing.&nbsp; Sometimes a nap helps too!&nbsp;&nbsp; Be sure to take time to de-stress in whatever way works best for you.&nbsp; <BR><BR>]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Turkey Day at the Kings</title>
		<link>http://antidepressionguide.org/2008/11/22/turkey-day-at-the-kings/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 22 Nov 2008 11:24:36 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>ozzieblackcat</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<BR>by Susan<BR><BR>While preparing to give thanks this Thanksgiving, I have been gathering the food for what we also call Turkey Day at our house.&#160;&#160; I'm so relieved to say we finally have a new refrigerator and I've spent the last two days going from one grocery store to the next shopping for the holiday bargains and filling up the freezer.&#160;&#160; I know I got the best prices around for the feast my only daughter and I will prepare on Thursday.&#160; <BR><BR>My husband and I are senior citizens and these holiday gatherings cause us a lot stress even though I absolutely love them!&#160;&#160; Now that's definitely a conflict of emotions!&#160;&#160; It must be associated with my underlying depression.&#160; Last night we realized we are going to have a really crowded table and we're trying to come up with a good solution.&#160;&#160; No kiddie table for us this year since the only child will be&#160;my 18 month old granddaughter.&#160;&#160; The daughter of my middle son and his wife.&#160; Maybe we'll have an old&#160;folks table for me and the hubby.&#160;&#160;&#160;Then we can sit back and watch as our children interact with each other.&#160;&#160; That's always been one of my favorite things to do.&#160; <BR><BR>I am especially thankful this year&#160;because my oldest son will be home for this holiday. &#160; I'm so happy that he is able to come home before going to Iraq in early December.&#160;&#160; &#160;I'm also happy to have my youngest son and his new bride for Thanksgiving this year.&#160;&#160;&#160;<BR><BR>I've seen a lot of funny and touching holiday movies where family members might fight, hug, play games, tease each other and be bored with each other.&#160;&#160; My family would make a wonderful movie and I'm sure everyone would love it.&#160;&#160; I think I'll call it&#160; "Turkey Day at the Kings ".&#160; <BR><BR>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<BR>by Susan<BR><BR>While preparing to give thanks this Thanksgiving, I have been gathering the food for what we also call Turkey Day at our house.&nbsp;&nbsp; I'm so relieved to say we finally have a new refrigerator and I've spent the last two days going from one grocery store to the next shopping for the holiday bargains and filling up the freezer.&nbsp;&nbsp; I know I got the best prices around for the feast my only daughter and I will prepare on Thursday.&nbsp; <BR><BR>My husband and I are senior citizens and these holiday gatherings cause us a lot stress even though I absolutely love them!&nbsp;&nbsp; Now that's definitely a conflict of emotions!&nbsp;&nbsp; It must be associated with my underlying depression.&nbsp; Last night we realized we are going to have a really crowded table and we're trying to come up with a good solution.&nbsp;&nbsp; No kiddie table for us this year since the only child will be&nbsp;my 18 month old granddaughter.&nbsp;&nbsp; The daughter of my middle son and his wife.&nbsp; Maybe we'll have an old&nbsp;folks table for me and the hubby.&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;Then we can sit back and watch as our children interact with each other.&nbsp;&nbsp; That's always been one of my favorite things to do.&nbsp; <BR><BR>I am especially thankful this year&nbsp;because my oldest son will be home for this holiday. &nbsp; I'm so happy that he is able to come home before going to Iraq in early December.&nbsp;&nbsp; &nbsp;I'm also happy to have my youngest son and his new bride for Thanksgiving this year.&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;<BR><BR>I've seen a lot of funny and touching holiday movies where family members might fight, hug, play games, tease each other and be bored with each other.&nbsp;&nbsp; My family would make a wonderful movie and I'm sure everyone would love it.&nbsp;&nbsp; I think I'll call it&nbsp; "Turkey Day at the Kings ".&nbsp; <BR><BR>]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>When Your Ducks Aren&#8217;t All In a Row</title>
		<link>http://antidepressionguide.org/2008/11/14/when-your-ducks-arent-all-in-a-row/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 14 Nov 2008 18:30:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[<BR>by Susan<BR><BR>When your ducks aren't all in a row you often feel a lot of stress, especially if you suffer from depression and/or anxiety.&#160; Most of us cherish having some sense of control in our lives and when things happen to upset our apple cart we often feel as if we no longer have any control.&#160; <BR><BR>This week I felt the stress of things going wrong and&#160;I felt&#160;helpless to keep&#160;them from happening.&#160;&#160; It all started when we realized we needed a new refrigerator.&#160;&#160; The compressor on the old one was making a terrible sound each time it stopped running.&#160; After several days of shopping around, we chose a new fridge which had to be ordered.&#160; We waited the specified five days and then moved&#160;our food to ice chests while the new fridge was being delivered.&#160; Well, the new fridge&#160;hums&#160;so loudly that it can easily be mistaken for the washing machine in the adjoining laundry room.&#160;&#160;&#160;It is making me even nuttier than usual!<BR><BR>Needless to say, we have complained&#160;to the store and they will be sending out another new refrigerator.......in another five days.&#160;&#160;&#160;We sure didn't need this unexpected expense during this sluggish economy.&#160;&#160; I guess we could consider this our Christmas present even if it isn't what we wanted.&#160;&#160; I will be thankful if we manage to get our ducks in a row&#160;by having&#160;a quiet and reliable refrigerator installed.&#160; I need to fill it with Thanksgiving food items.....before Thanksgiving.&#160; &#160;My family is coming and they will want some turkey and trimmings!&#160; <BR><BR><A href="http://his-hers.ozzieblackcat.com/"><IMG src="http://images.quickblogcast.com/48202-43758/small_mom_pic1.jpg" width=105 border=0></A>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<BR>by Susan<BR><BR>When your ducks aren't all in a row you often feel a lot of stress, especially if you suffer from depression and/or anxiety.&nbsp; Most of us cherish having some sense of control in our lives and when things happen to upset our apple cart we often feel as if we no longer have any control.&nbsp; <BR><BR>This week I felt the stress of things going wrong and&nbsp;I felt&nbsp;helpless to keep&nbsp;them from happening.&nbsp;&nbsp; It all started when we realized we needed a new refrigerator.&nbsp;&nbsp; The compressor on the old one was making a terrible sound each time it stopped running.&nbsp; After several days of shopping around, we chose a new fridge which had to be ordered.&nbsp; We waited the specified five days and then moved&nbsp;our food to ice chests while the new fridge was being delivered.&nbsp; Well, the new fridge&nbsp;hums&nbsp;so loudly that it can easily be mistaken for the washing machine in the adjoining laundry room.&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;It is making me even nuttier than usual!<BR><BR>Needless to say, we have complained&nbsp;to the store and they will be sending out another new refrigerator.......in another five days.&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;We sure didn't need this unexpected expense during this sluggish economy.&nbsp;&nbsp; I guess we could consider this our Christmas present even if it isn't what we wanted.&nbsp;&nbsp; I will be thankful if we manage to get our ducks in a row&nbsp;by having&nbsp;a quiet and reliable refrigerator installed.&nbsp; I need to fill it with Thanksgiving food items.....before Thanksgiving.&nbsp; &nbsp;My family is coming and they will want some turkey and trimmings!&nbsp; <BR><BR><A href="http://his-hers.ozzieblackcat.com/"><IMG src="http://images.quickblogcast.com/48202-43758/small_mom_pic1.jpg" width=105 border=0></A>]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>You Don&#8217;t Know What You&#8217;ve Got</title>
		<link>http://antidepressionguide.org/2008/10/25/you-dont-know-what-youve-got/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 25 Oct 2008 18:13:01 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>ozzieblackcat</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<BR>by Susan<BR><BR>Taking people for granted is one of the easiest things to do and one of the hardest things to undo.&#160; The same can be said for taking things for granted, whether it be material things or even our own physical or mental health.&#160;&#160; The bottom line is that we don't know what we've got until we lose it. <BR><BR>We don't fully appreciate the good things in our lives until we no longer have them.&#160;&#160; Loss of a loved one or a broken relationship can cause us a great deal of pain.&#160; Dealing with severe depression or other mental health problems can totally upset our world as we once knew it.&#160; Suffering through difficult physical problems can also be extremely stressful.&#160;&#160; When faced with all of these dilemmas we often wonder what happened to the good times.&#160; We often miss them terribly.&#160;&#160; <BR><BR>We can learn to cherish&#160;our good relationships and other things, knowing we will dearly miss&#160;them when they are gone.&#160;&#160; Reach out to those you love now rather than later.&#160; You never know when it might be too late.&#160; We'll also&#160;miss&#160;our 'feelin good' days, so let's be sure to take full advantage of all the ones we get.<BR>&#160;<BR>I loved the music of the 60's and there was a song&#160;of the 60's that came to mind the other day after I visited with a dear friend.&#160; The song is&#160;called "You Don't Know What You've Got (Until You Lose It)"&#160; I've posted the lyrics below in case some of you might remember it too.&#160; I really liked this song when it was popular and I guess I still do.&#160;&#160;&#160; Thanks for reading this blog.&#160; <BR><BR><BR><FONT face=Arial>YOU DON'T KNOW WHAT YOU'VE GOT (UNTIL YOU LOSE IT)<BR>(George Burton / Paul Hampton)<BR><BR>Ral Donner - 1961<BR>Big Jim Sullivan - 1961<BR><BR><BR>You don't know what you've got until you lose it<BR>You gave me you-your love but I abused it<BR>And now I'm sorry for the things I didn't say<BR>`cause I know now I acted in a foolish way<BR>(oh yeah) uh-huh-huh (oh yeah) oh-oh-yeah<BR><BR>You don't know what you've got until you lose it<BR>You gave me you-your love but I misused it<BR>I never knew how lonely loneliness could be<BR>And now I need you, dear, as you once needed me<BR>(oh yeah) uh-huh-huh (oh yeah) oh-oh-yeah<BR><BR>So now if you'd come to this lonely heart you own<BR>I'd give you all my lovin' like you've never known<BR>(bung, bung, bung, bung)<BR><BR>You don't know what you've got until you lose it<BR>You gave me you-your love but I misused it<BR>And now I'm sorry for the things I didn't say<BR>`cause I know now I acted in a foolish way<BR>(oh yeah) uh-huh-huh (oh yeah) oh-oh-yeah<BR><BR>(oh yeah) uh-huh-huh (oh yeah) oh-oh-yeah<BR>FADE<BR>(oh yeah) uh-huh-huh (oh yeah)<BR><BR></FONT><!-------PASTE SONG LYRICS AND ALL INFO BETWEEN THESE TWO LINES--->]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<BR>by Susan<BR><BR>Taking people for granted is one of the easiest things to do and one of the hardest things to undo.&nbsp; The same can be said for taking things for granted, whether it be material things or even our own physical or mental health.&nbsp;&nbsp; The bottom line is that we don't know what we've got until we lose it. <BR><BR>We don't fully appreciate the good things in our lives until we no longer have them.&nbsp;&nbsp; Loss of a loved one or a broken relationship can cause us a great deal of pain.&nbsp; Dealing with severe depression or other mental health problems can totally upset our world as we once knew it.&nbsp; Suffering through difficult physical problems can also be extremely stressful.&nbsp;&nbsp; When faced with all of these dilemmas we often wonder what happened to the good times.&nbsp; We often miss them terribly.&nbsp;&nbsp; <BR><BR>We can learn to cherish&nbsp;our good relationships and other things, knowing we will dearly miss&nbsp;them when they are gone.&nbsp;&nbsp; Reach out to those you love now rather than later.&nbsp; You never know when it might be too late.&nbsp; We'll also&nbsp;miss&nbsp;our 'feelin good' days, so let's be sure to take full advantage of all the ones we get.<BR>&nbsp;<BR>I loved the music of the 60's and there was a song&nbsp;of the 60's that came to mind the other day after I visited with a dear friend.&nbsp; The song is&nbsp;called "You Don't Know What You've Got (Until You Lose It)"&nbsp; I've posted the lyrics below in case some of you might remember it too.&nbsp; I really liked this song when it was popular and I guess I still do.&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; Thanks for reading this blog.&nbsp; <BR><BR><BR><FONT face=Arial>YOU DON'T KNOW WHAT YOU'VE GOT (UNTIL YOU LOSE IT)<BR>(George Burton / Paul Hampton)<BR><BR>Ral Donner - 1961<BR>Big Jim Sullivan - 1961<BR><BR><BR>You don't know what you've got until you lose it<BR>You gave me you-your love but I abused it<BR>And now I'm sorry for the things I didn't say<BR>`cause I know now I acted in a foolish way<BR>(oh yeah) uh-huh-huh (oh yeah) oh-oh-yeah<BR><BR>You don't know what you've got until you lose it<BR>You gave me you-your love but I misused it<BR>I never knew how lonely loneliness could be<BR>And now I need you, dear, as you once needed me<BR>(oh yeah) uh-huh-huh (oh yeah) oh-oh-yeah<BR><BR>So now if you'd come to this lonely heart you own<BR>I'd give you all my lovin' like you've never known<BR>(bung, bung, bung, bung)<BR><BR>You don't know what you've got until you lose it<BR>You gave me you-your love but I misused it<BR>And now I'm sorry for the things I didn't say<BR>`cause I know now I acted in a foolish way<BR>(oh yeah) uh-huh-huh (oh yeah) oh-oh-yeah<BR><BR>(oh yeah) uh-huh-huh (oh yeah) oh-oh-yeah<BR>FADE<BR>(oh yeah) uh-huh-huh (oh yeah)<BR><BR></FONT><!-------PASTE SONG LYRICS AND ALL INFO BETWEEN THESE TWO LINES--->]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Success Goes a Long Way</title>
		<link>http://antidepressionguide.org/2008/10/09/success-goes-a-long-way/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 09 Oct 2008 09:26:17 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>ozzieblackcat</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<BR>by Susan<BR><BR>I recently had some success in achieving a goal with my Avon sales and realize now that a little success goes a long way in relieving depression.&#160;&#160;&#160;Success also helps promote a good sense self esteem which is something most of us can use on a regular basis.&#160; <BR><BR>Although tackling new projects and taking new risks can cause us a good deal of stress, it can also eventually give us a lot of rewards.&#160;&#160; Success can greatly improve our general mental health and make us more pleasant to be around.&#160;&#160; Don't get me wrong........I'm usually a very pleasant person, although I suffer from depression.&#160;&#160;<BR><BR>Yesterday I attended my Avon District Sales Meeting and felt reassured about my future with Avon.&#160;&#160;I received recognition for my accomplishments and&#160;all of us received the assurance that Avon will not be laying off representatives.&#160;&#160; In this&#160;troubled economy that was a good thing to hear.&#160;&#160;<BR><BR>I'm very&#160;pleased that I&#160;was able to make myself get out there and start selling&#160;Avon&#160;two years ago.&#160; It was a risk that paid off in many ways......especially because it got me out of the house and interacting with people again.&#160;&#160; If we can make ourselves try new things,&#160;the success we achieve will go a long way in helping us cope with depression.&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160; <BR><BR><BR>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<BR>by Susan<BR><BR>I recently had some success in achieving a goal with my Avon sales and realize now that a little success goes a long way in relieving depression.&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;Success also helps promote a good sense self esteem which is something most of us can use on a regular basis.&nbsp; <BR><BR>Although tackling new projects and taking new risks can cause us a good deal of stress, it can also eventually give us a lot of rewards.&nbsp;&nbsp; Success can greatly improve our general mental health and make us more pleasant to be around.&nbsp;&nbsp; Don't get me wrong........I'm usually a very pleasant person, although I suffer from depression.&nbsp;&nbsp;<BR><BR>Yesterday I attended my Avon District Sales Meeting and felt reassured about my future with Avon.&nbsp;&nbsp;I received recognition for my accomplishments and&nbsp;all of us received the assurance that Avon will not be laying off representatives.&nbsp;&nbsp; In this&nbsp;troubled economy that was a good thing to hear.&nbsp;&nbsp;<BR><BR>I'm very&nbsp;pleased that I&nbsp;was able to make myself get out there and start selling&nbsp;Avon&nbsp;two years ago.&nbsp; It was a risk that paid off in many ways......especially because it got me out of the house and interacting with people again.&nbsp;&nbsp; If we can make ourselves try new things,&nbsp;the success we achieve will go a long way in helping us cope with depression.&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; <BR><BR><BR>]]></content:encoded>
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